הַצִּילֵנִי נָא מִיַּד אָחִי מִיַּד עֵשָׂו כִּי יָרֵא אָנֹכִי אֹתוֹ פֶּן יָבוֹא וְהִכַּנִי אֵם עַל בָּנִים
בראשית לב יב
You got married hoping for joy, stability, and a bayis ne'eman b'yisroel.
But instead, you find yourself in pain, confusion, or even crisis. You've tried turning to friends, family, community, or professionals. Yet no one truly understands — or worse, their well-meaning efforts only made things more complicated.
You feel stuck. Alone. Exhausted.
That's why we're here.
Our Approach
We are not just another organization.
Holistic & Boutique
Like a boutique law firm in feel, but broader: offering Rav guidance, therapeutic referrals, contract drafting, strategy, and ongoing support — all under one roof.
Empathetic & Trusted
Sensitive to your pain, discreet in our process, and careful to understand your unique story.
Rooted in Torah
Every step taken in alignment with halacha and the values of Klal Yisroel.
Professionally Grounded
We collaborate with experienced therapists, attorneys, and experts who truly know what they are doing.
Who We Are
Our team of Bnei Torah professionals, Rabbonim, and expert advisors has:
Spent years working directly with frum families in crisis
Helped victims navigate the complexities of divorce, abuse, and halachic disputes
Researched and analyzed systemic failures — and built solutions that work
Always prioritized one thing: protecting the Jewish family and children of Klal Yisroel
We believe something must change. And that change begins with you finding the right help.
Testimonials
They were the only ones who understood both the Torah side and the legal side. Nobody else had the depth.
— Chaim S.
When my brother got divorced, he began acting with immense rage and bitterness. In court, he had gone through three lawyers. In conversation, he repeatedly touted bizarre conspiracy theories about the court system. He was really unhinged, and I never saw this side of him before. He was always so stable and balanced. I began wondering if there was a side to him that I never knew, and maybe my ex-sister-in-law was right...But then I took a course with Hatzileini for extended family members of divorcees. It completely blew my mind. I always knew that divorce could be messy, but I had no idea just how evil and lopsided the system is. I now see my brother as someone that went through a horrific traumatic experience, more like a mini-Holocaust than just 'a difficult relationship'. The pain, the gaslighting, the denials, the blaming when he was truly trying his best. It all adds up now. Now I can be validating of his suffering and our family has been the loving support team that it ought to be. I am confident that he will rebuild himself into the resilient balanced person that he once was, or even stronger. We would have never been able to do this without Hatzileini.
— Chani G.
Even though our son was an older single, we were very uneasy with the thought of him marrying a divorcee. What if things wouldn't work out cv"s? Would we never see our grandchildren? But then we discovered that she had taken a course with Hatzileini which emphasizes co-parenting not merely as an optional chesed, but as a basic human right. They ended up getting married, and we are so happy that they did. The young women who go through divorce and grow from it, guided by authentic Torah principles are of a much higher caliber than many of the single girls whom our son had previously dated. We are so proud of the strength that our new daughter-in-law has. Our son has never been happier. Thank you Hatzileini for making this possible.
— Yehudis S.
I was ready to give up. They showed me I wasn't crazy, and that there was a path forward.
— Miriam L.
Discreet, compassionate, and practical. Exactly what I needed.
— Dovid R.
(Names changed for privacy. More available upon request.)
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You don't have to go through this alone. Contact us today, and an expert will reach out discreetly, providing support and guidance as you navigate some of the most painful — and important — moments of your life.
We are here for you.
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